It’s a given we women today either shave or wax our pubic region in order to maintain our bikini lines but how many of you out there either shave or wax the cleft of your bottom as well? In addition to regularly trimming his pubic hair, shaving his scrotum and the base of his penis my boyfriend maintains a hairless cleft between his cheeks (I discovered this while giving him a massage the first time we were ever physically intimate). I suddenly felt so naïve and woefully negligent in my self-grooming habits, having never directed any attention to that area of my nethers—would “Jason” be grossed out by the sight of my hairy crack? Not wanting to find out I declined to let him probe, massage that region of my body until I’d had a chance to tidy up my hitherto hirsute bum (had a salon wax last week). I’m extremely curious what your readers have to say as none of my girlfriends has ever broached the subject of grooming that part of the anatomy. Is it possible to blindly shave oneself back there without rendering oneself a bloody mess? Please, do tell!